Another Secret Admirer
And he needs your help!
Hello,
I was browsing the web with the subject 'secret admirer' and came up across the thingsihate website. I would like your opinion on a situation I'm about to partake in. It might be freaky, but I'd at least like to get a feel on what your thoughts may be. I work at
this school as a janitor (cleaning the floors) and am 19. Since September of 2001, I've noticed (and had a crush on) this girl that works in aftercare. She is around 19-21 from a few people that I've asked. I've seen her around on a few occasions. Initially, she'd say hello (just being friendly) and then when I'd see her walking by at times, I'd say hi to her. Basically nothing really went on. I'm really shy to approach her. One time I spoke to her albeit briefly (asking if she went to my college cause I saw her car there). But, I had the opportunity to be in the cafeteria where she was, and she had to put something away near to me, so I spoke, though she had to go back to the far end, and she was speaking with someone else (girl).
Sorry for the long winded intro. I was contemplating on sending her an email professing to her that she has a secret admirer and that I'd like her to describe to me any guys she may like. The problem is that I know her name, and I never even asked her! I heard a kid say it before, but I also saw it written on a sheet of paper in the faculty room (a room in which I buff the floor as well) asking that if anyone is interested in ordering from a Pampered Chef catalogue, to see her about placing an order. I obtained her email address because I saw her email in the school directory online.
Now, if I told her how I found out her info to send her a letter (if she describes me, I hope!) do you think she'd be freaked (well, that's probably a given) and/or at least flattered by my professing my
feelings in this manner? How would you react? I'm basically shy to actually approach her (unless no one else is around) and feel much more comfortable in this approach because I would not want to embarass myself. By the time you read this, school will be over, so the email will be the only means of talking to her.
Any advice appreciated.
Thanks!
EDITOR'S NOTE: This email is originally from June 14th, but any suggestions you provide will either be seen in the comments by the author (if he's still reading) or, if we see no indication that he is, emailed to him by the editors. His email address is not listed, since this was not submitted as an article.
I was browsing the web with the subject 'secret admirer' and came up across the thingsihate website. I would like your opinion on a situation I'm about to partake in. It might be freaky, but I'd at least like to get a feel on what your thoughts may be. I work at
this school as a janitor (cleaning the floors) and am 19. Since September of 2001, I've noticed (and had a crush on) this girl that works in aftercare. She is around 19-21 from a few people that I've asked. I've seen her around on a few occasions. Initially, she'd say hello (just being friendly) and then when I'd see her walking by at times, I'd say hi to her. Basically nothing really went on. I'm really shy to approach her. One time I spoke to her albeit briefly (asking if she went to my college cause I saw her car there). But, I had the opportunity to be in the cafeteria where she was, and she had to put something away near to me, so I spoke, though she had to go back to the far end, and she was speaking with someone else (girl).
Sorry for the long winded intro. I was contemplating on sending her an email professing to her that she has a secret admirer and that I'd like her to describe to me any guys she may like. The problem is that I know her name, and I never even asked her! I heard a kid say it before, but I also saw it written on a sheet of paper in the faculty room (a room in which I buff the floor as well) asking that if anyone is interested in ordering from a Pampered Chef catalogue, to see her about placing an order. I obtained her email address because I saw her email in the school directory online.
Now, if I told her how I found out her info to send her a letter (if she describes me, I hope!) do you think she'd be freaked (well, that's probably a given) and/or at least flattered by my professing my
feelings in this manner? How would you react? I'm basically shy to actually approach her (unless no one else is around) and feel much more comfortable in this approach because I would not want to embarass myself. By the time you read this, school will be over, so the email will be the only means of talking to her.
Any advice appreciated.
Thanks!
EDITOR'S NOTE: This email is originally from June 14th, but any suggestions you provide will either be seen in the comments by the author (if he's still reading) or, if we see no indication that he is, emailed to him by the editors. His email address is not listed, since this was not submitted as an article.