Alpha Delta Pi Tip

You're all fucked. Fucked right up.

What is it with you and your wierds cliques in America?
What is it with you and your hierachical structures of human beings?
What is it with you and your need to worship.
What is it with you and your need to raise someone to demi god status only to make yourself seem smaller by comparison, but because you whore-ship them you are have some of their own greatness reflected on you to make your miserable life worth living, when that same relected glory is the glory you originally used to create the one you worship showing that you are only wor-shipping your own self repression which you are inflicting upon yourself?
What is it with you?

What is it with every secret society having the same damn handshake?

I think that the paddles and the beer make it all worthwhile. And pig night.

Hey, you can find the weirdest stuff in the Windows saved cache files. The subject of this post in fact. Also, my secret societies hand shake is pissing in someone's ear.

Yeah, if someone pisses in our ears, we cut their ear off, piss in it, then hand it back to them and say, "Next time you want to piss in someone's ear, piss in this one!"

Is that some kind of Michealangelo whorshiping cult?

Good time to be anonymous, dope

I'm pretty sure that Michealangelo was a whorshipping earpisser from the days of laying on his back and painting on the ceiling. I know you are probably thinking of Vincento van Gouf, who himself was also a whorshipping earpisser; not the first, but one of the famous in a long line of many.

VVG was an earmisser.

Well, sometimes even I miss the actual ear itself due to premature urination.

If someone was to piss in your ear, you could be pissed off and pissed on at the same time. And depending on their accuracy targeting the ear canal, you could also be pissed in.

It is pretty odd (the fraternity). but i guess people just want to belong. Also people just want a way to justify the feeling, deep in their bones, that they're innately superior.

A lot of yanks we get down under wear their fraternity t-shirts. And they all seem to be wankers. (no offense, mes freres)
The sheilas are friendly, but their skin glows this funny orange colour - like they've been eating too much pumpkin.
That's all.

They are orange because they drink their own urine.

That was a good plan that the Brits had to send their criminals and debtors to Austrailia, great gene pool you got there. Also, Foster's Beer stinks!

Foster's: Australian for "Piss".

But i did skip spelling artists names class.

He was never keeping it real enough to chop off his ear but the pope would send back the ears of men he captured just so Mike could piss through them, I expect the Pope was a member too, maybe he pissed through the ears first.

I guees that you've all been inducted into my secret society...

I can't believe they posted that story. Well, I guees you guys know why I have so much free time now.

Write another one. Either something that happened or made-up. That style had sort of a funny delivery rhythm, so that style is ok, or use another style if it fits better with a different story. Yeah, write another one.

And draw my next cartoon, too!

polish my door knob!

The story ends with her breaking up with me one month later to go gay...

Anyway, the comic idea sounds fun.

...she became a libyan?

who went gay? the geek or the ho?

Well, I said "a month later" so I hoped that you could draw the conclusion that I didn't keep the prostitute for a month (which would have cost a fortune at 20 dollars an hour...) To think, if she had hooked up with the prostitute, I could have been on Jerry Springer or something.

antwan and h. biscuit -- do you two realize you are crushing funny through your combined force of boring?

though i realize you are all cynics who hate us greeks, i'm posting anyway--
to the person who started this:
thank you for degrading our organization. the only thing we have to regret in 152 years of existence is letting someone like you in, who doesn't understand the sacristy of this. it may not seem like much to you, but we actually care.

I would just like to say that you can spread whatever rumors you would like about Alpha Delta Pi sorority. Even if you do reveal all of the secret of the sisterhood, the true meaning, feeling, commitment, and bond behind those secrets can never truely be revealed or explained. I recognize that you may not understand the idea behind a sorority, but I think it is really narrow-minded to have spread the information across the internet. Alpha Delta Pi has been in exisitence for over 150 years, and we can withstand your rumors and gossiping.

X-adpi with a bad memory. Not even close Hun.

But it's still fucked up. I had insane issues with the sorority myself. It is absolutely NOT for me, and I'm a bit ashamed that I took part in the haloolinanigans for almost two full years before seeing its true nature in all of its full glory. HOWEVER, I learned my lesson and dropped it, along with any rewardless responsibility that I had chosen to take upon myself. That is ALL that is required if it does not work for you. Get your ass up and walk away.
This is bullshit. What are you trying to accomplish?
You are a small child taking your own stagnant emotional shit and seeing how far you can fling it at other people. Go hide under the covers of your bed where you can always feel protected and secure.

I will NEVER understand why college students (my peers) feel the need to pay for their friends. It only shows any friends that you might have outside your sororities and fraternities that they are not good enough to meet your needs for friendship. A certain amount of abandonship goes into this whole pledging/greek thing. Hazing is more common than most want to admit and that's sad, also maybe some of the accounts here are too accurate so you have say they are false to protect your sacred secret society, so you can continue to discriminate against those who chose a different life path than ADPi or can't afford to pay for friends. Next time, you're out with your sisters havin a jolly time, think about the independent women who would love to be able ot pay for their friends and not be rejected because they don't wear greek letters - and the loneliness that they are forced to endure because of these secret, discriminatory clubs. Other extra-curriculars are forced to be equal in opportunity and we're taught about tolerance and acceptance of religion, gender, and race, but socioeconomic status goes out the window and the discrimination continues unscathed with these organizations charging up to 500 dollars a year for dues.

I have been a part of ADPi for years now, and sadly I have seen this happen to Chi O's and Phi Mu's a few times. However, I never in a million years would have thought that someone would (for the most part incorrectly) post parts of our ritual, but I guess that ignorance and immaturity can cross any boundary. I hope that this girl understands now why she is no longer a member of our sisterhood, and if she doesn't, then that just proves my point that she was too immature to handle this kind of committment in the first place.
To The Original Author:
I must also say that in my experience as a Greek and even before I was Greek, people tend to show disdane for things from which they have been rejected. Being told that you are not the kind of person that should be allowed to wear the symbols of an organization usually shows that you never had what it takes in your heart to begin with. It takes a strong person to be be told that and walk away with your pride and your dignity. It sucks to know that you aren't as classy or well-liked as you thought, huh?

All your shits wrong you dumb bitch. Huh ever wonder why you are not a member anymore? Maybe because you are a dirty slut whore bag!!! Not only can you not be trusted but obvioulsy you would have made a shitty sister (hint why you aren't one now) you couln't even remember ritual...

hey i am an inactive adpi and even though the girls from my chapter have done some bad things, just like every other college person around, i would never dream of telling the world about something that they hold sacred...it seems you have no respect for yourself or others...i dont know what happened to you or what made you so bitter, but you should seriously think about something...it probably wasnt too long ago that you sat in that ritual and actually cared about it...quit being such a hypocrite

You are a bitch.

You joined this sorority knowing that all rituals we learned were to be kept in secret! How dare you tell people what our initiation ritual is! It may not be much but it's still something special and sacred! You made an oath to keep everything confidentional and you broke it! I don't care if you have the bad end of the deal, an oath is still an oath!

I would like to know the identity of the girl you recived this tip from, and what chapter she was supposedly in. Because, if you're going to try and expose people, you should at least have your facts right. that is NOT our secret handshake, but you can just go right ahead and think that. Also, other facts stated are wrong. It is obvious why this girl is an ex-ADPi. She has no life. A real ADPi wouldn't try to be such a drama starting BITCH!

Hi-
I am a member of Alpha Delta Pi, and as creative as that little article is. I hate to break it to you but I've never heard of any of that. If everyone wants to pretend they know our secrets however that is cool.

hahah thats hilarious! You obviuoslly are full of shit, because I am an ADpi and that is creative, let me tell you, but definitely not even close to how we are initiated and our secrets. but good try, really.

To those of you who spoke negatively towards ADPI...I HATE YOU...DIE!!!

It's amazing how much attention this website has gotten after national ADPi officers made a big deal about it on a Greek website. If they would have ignored it now one woould have seen it.
And Will, I agree with you about the 5 + 6 = 11 thing, although I think Milanos are better than oreos.

I think its very disrespectful that you would go thru something as sacred as a sorority initiation and then go blab it all over the internet. Don't you have anything else better to do w/ your time? Do you remember the vow you took that day w/ your hand on the Bible?

You have no life, but a great imagination! Why dont you take your focus off adpi, the best sorority, and put it to good use, such as community service or a needed bible study! Halla

I know that we have an esoteric bond. But attacking the girls who posted this doesn't show what we are about. I don't know why these girls would go all the way through initiation and then get so jaded, but there's no reason for us to attack them. Take the high road, and don't encourage through discouragement.

love and loyally.

Gotta tell you, Most of what is written about the Ritual is accurate. Not just here, but other sites. I will let you do the research, and I will not post what I have. I have many sources, including ADPi current and former members. I was even privy to private conversations from ADPi members regarding this very article on this site. This conversation mentioned this site by name, and asked for ADPi members not to post here and try to play off the ritual as not true, that it is making it worse. The conversation went on to say that indeed "details of the ritual" were posted, and to let it go. I am sort of a defacto expert on the ADPi ritual. I even know how they dress during the ritual. I am not out to expose the ritual, or cause any strife, it just all started with an ADPi pal saying "I would never find out what the ritual was". I took it as a challenge. I dont blame ADPi members for getting upset, and trying to downplpay the article. I suppose if I wanted to protect something, I would defend it to. The part I guess I dont understand, is how far ADPi was willing to go to protect it. It almost seemed certain memebers were willing to break rules, tarnish reputations, and go way beyond the norms. Bad behavior from either side makes it worse. To all ADPi, its not the end of the world if some know of your ritual. You have your sisterhood. Heck, I know what goes on in the ritual, but would never have an understanding of the siterhood.

Like I said, there went another "The ritual posted is not true" post. Much of what is in the article is true. Trust me, I have good inside info, and much of it matches the story posted. I had this info WAY before this article was posted. Problem with the article, is how vauge it is. If I were to post EVERYTHIG, trust me, there would be a million ADPi saying "its not true, get a clue".

I was raped and dropped into a coffin! Oh, the humanity!

Kristen for that I am sorry. Very disturbing to say the least.

BITCH!! that is not our ritual you lying fucking whore. go sisterhood and to all those ladies in Beta Chi-- remember to attend your bible studies and pray for disloyal girls.

So they know our ritual. Big deal. We are the first and the finest and we will not let someone unloyal take away our pride. Its going to take a lot more than those rumers to stop our sisterhood.

Holy shit, this article has had snarky comments added to it every week for the past 10 months. What the fuck is wrong with you people? Seriously. Go sisters, beat down those fucking cunts for sisterhood. Don't let me stop you, I mean it's hysterical, but still... Jesus Fucking Christ.

Jack, you crack me up. You complain about an old topic that keeps getting responded to, and you respond to it LOL. DOH!

If anyone is paying attention, the Leslie Curran post about what ADPi stand for, and the story of a reporter who talked about the ritual, have been removed. HMMMMM. Disturbing to say the least. What pressure did ADPi put on this website?. Very interesting. Thank god for me, I copied, and screen shot everything, so nice try.

I can't remember what it stands for and it's not in my cache.

thanks!

Theta Chi means "helping hand"

This girl is just looking for some attention obviously! If she had of been listening in Ritual, then maybe she wouldnt be an ex ADPI. That is not what it is at all. I am also an ex ADPI not by choice, but Alpha Delta Pi's Ritual is beautiful and held sacred by all ADPi's....old and new. First off ADPI's can not drink out of SHOT glass, so thats dumb to begin with. Second off, ADPI's dont have BIG SISTERS....they have DIAMOND sisters. Get it right girl, I mean didnt you say you were and ADPI once? Even if I am not in the chapter anymore, I still hold the ritual to heart, and it is ridculous to think that our ritual is that juvenile. It is much more meaningful and sacred. You can not explain ritual of Alpha Delta Pi in just a few paragraphs. So if you want to know what ADPI is all about ask a sister....not an ex memeber that is apparently trying to make something so wonderful look bad. Get you head out of your ass girl!!!!!!!

While the Alpha Delta Pi Ritual doesn't use "shot glasses", it does call for "communion glasses" and yes, the act is akin to taking a "shot" of water.

Ah, the future of civilization is right here my friends, in the Greek houses full of rich jerks with secret handshakes and inane rituals.

At least the Freemasons seemed to be doing a good job with the world--OR SO YOU THINK.

This whole thing of people calling themselves "Greeks". They even capitalize it. Like you and your little girl club have anything to do to Greece or Grecian culture. It underlines just how "made up" these organizations are.

Fisrt off, by posting something sacred held to someone's heart/beliefs is just wrong. That is all I will say about that.I am in a sorority. And it is more than just buying friends. In all honestly, the girls I am close to would have been my close friends even if I hadn't joined. And the other girls are just friends.However, I know that even though I am not close to the other girls, they would do anything for me. A sorority is more than just buying friends, I originally thought that is the case. A sorority is something that can't be explained in words. There are so many facets to it. All people that hate sororities are just ignorant to what they are because they don't care about them. Why would they look into what they are? I don't give a second thought to things I don't care about. I come from a college where The Greek Community is much much different than other schools. The whole structure is completely different. We don't have frat or sorority houses, so maybe that is why there isn't as much bs. We are students(just like everyone else in college), and We don't think that we are better than anyone, I have some really good friends in other sororities(something unheard of at other schools),and we definitley do more community service than throwing parties. Half of my close friends don't even belong to a sorority. They don't like them, but they respect my decision to be in one and I respect how they feel about them. I am in a sorority because I belive in what it stands for, I believe in its philanthropy, I believe in scholarship, I believe that the girls in it are wonderful, I believe that the expereinces and memories I have with it can't be replaced. And no one can challenge what I believe in. I would be willing to pay over a million dollars for dues and not just 280 a semester. Think about what you do with 280 dollars. And yes I pay for my dues, my parents don't. Not everyone in a frat/sorority was fed with a silver spoon, I know I sure as hell wasn't. Also, I know that a lot of sororites out there are full of debauchery. And some girls just join so they can party and meet guys. But please don't think we are all like that. You have to look(really look) at each sorority and chapter because you would be surprised at what you might find. If you aren't willing to do at least that then you have no basis to bad mouth them. I know that by joining a sorority I opened myself to many more judgements and ridicule that I normally wouldn't undergo. It just bothers me to think that some people's views on Sororities are so narrow and close minded. And if you are wondering why I didn't say which sorority I am in it is because we were asked not to post by our national office...you can come to any conclusions you want about what sorority I might be in.

Why are so many people hell bent on lambasting greek orgaizations? What did we ever do to you? in college I was the ultimate oxymoron I was a sorority girl and a theater major. Know what I found out? the girls in my major who were INDEPENDENT were more snotty and pretentions than the greek girls I knew even the ones in other org's. Sorority life is not for everyone but why critsize people because they do things diffrently than you, I could speculate on your personalty disorders for criticizing my way of life just as eaisly as you speculate on mine for "joining up". I personally could give a rats a** if you're in my sorority or not if you're going to be my friend and i'm sure most of the other girls in greek letter orgaizations feel simialry. Going on a personal hate crusade against one or all greek letter orgaizations only makes you look bad not the group or groups. As for posting a groups ritual, I don't think thats right it hurts the members of the org and really, why does anyone else care? why are you so keen to revive deleted posts about stuff that dosen't even concern you? you know a secret handshake big deal where is it going to get you? if you actually tried to front as a member the orgaization problably has detailed membership records and would find you out ritual or no and if you really wanted to be a member that bad why not rush like everyone else? or alot of orgs initate alumnae now I mean come on. What is it that compells you to say hurtful things about greeks when really were just like you? We're people too if you prick us do we not bleed? everyone affiliated or not has problably participated in some sort of "high school bullshit" at some point in their lives. In fact by choosing dissaffilation and dismissing everyone in letters a an elite separatist you are in fact, participating in you own brand of separatism. And as far as Buying friends lots of clubs and groups have dues to keep the organization operating why should sororitys be any different? Our dues pay for our social functions, t-shirts, fees to national, and gasp! our philanthropy. Alot of groups have a house as well which is a HUGE expense. I just don't understand why people nit pick us so much, I mean geez if we joined these orgaizations to gain acceptance then we made a mistake because 20% of a given university population accepts us and the other 80% hates us that dosen't seem right. If acceptance was my goal then I should have stayed unaffiliated then everyone would have at least given me a shot right? But I digress, I implore everyone who is thinking about adding another greek bashing post to this article to remember just because something isn't your thing dosen't mean you have to say hurtful things about those who enjoy it. And to the girls who keep posting in "defense" of their orgaization if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all you are not doing ADPi or the greek community as a whole any favors

ADPI GIRLS: STOP POSTING!!!!!

I'm an ADPi from Longwood. I just graduated after spending 3 years in the organization. I have realized that "sisterhood" isn't all that it's cracked up to be, and to be honest, I had more poor experiences than good ones. As a member of 3 years, I can tell the world that the sisters who are trying to say this is entirely fake are liars. It is true that some of this is a little off, but for the most part, this is our ritual. Have fun spreading the word and trying to get into chapter rooms.

I graduated college six years ago. While I really enjoyed being an ADPi, I'm not going to get hysterical because someone posts the handshake or parts of the ritual. After you graduate and get out into the real world, you will learn that there are a lot worse things that can happen to you. Save your energy -- get worked up over something that really matters.

By the way, she was pretty accurate.

I do not know the circumstances under which this ex-adpi is no longer a member. However, I do know the amount of disrespect she must have had for her sisters. It is ridiculous that she told part of the ritual of alpha delta pi. I feel sorry for her and am ashamed that she would do this only to boost her own self-confidence.

I'd just like to post a little comment to express my absolute incredulity that anyone would ever, ever, buy into that pile of crap.

The lengths people apparently go to follow the herd amaze and astound me. I can't beleive that any rational human being would put up with such crap.

I guess a hundred years ago (or however long it supposedly is) a couple of girls got creative with their hazing, the poor saps never learned that it was all bullshit and horsefeathers, and it got passed on ever since...

I am not a member of any Greek organization. However, I think it's just rude to go and pledge yourself, or whatever y'all sorority girls do, and then break the pledge you made. Its downright wrong to make a promise, swear, or oath and then break it. I think that if you were really friends with these people then it would matter to you and affect the decision you have made to go and spread their business to the internet. I have people that I once was friends with and now am not friends with. However, just cause we arent friends anymore doesnt give me the right to go spreading crap that I made a promise to keep secret.

And one more thing, like I said, Im not in a sorority. If the girls from this sorority really are saying, well some is true, some isnt, then the likelihood is that its probably not true at all. Cause, afterall, you're supposed to deny at all costs any reference to this right?

And to add one more thing, I don't see any point in bashing people who are members of sororotities or fraternities. Its just another social group, just like Key Club, Insert name here Honor Society, etc. Just leave people alone and let them make their own decisions.

I can not believe that you would put something like this on a website. You need to remove this quickly because you will soon have an entire society coming after you and the person who wrote this.

Exuse me....I happen to be a current Alpha Delta Pi member and I don't know where you picked crap like that up from, but if you actually think that's what our initiation consists of, friend you were never really a member. Might I advise you to quit trying to be such a poser, and if you want to try to expose our rituals,try to atleast find out what they REALLY are instead of putting this fake b.s. on the web. You're only going to make yourself look worse by making up lies. The truth of the matter is that you probably wanted to be in ADPi and they wouldn't take you, so your way of getting back at them is to come up with some lame-ass ritual sounding junk and try to convince everyone this is the real thing. Thats so sad, and it makes me almost feel sorry for you. Besides, anyone who knows anything about our initiation knows its not that easy. I'd like to end by congratulating you on making such an ass of yourself, and I look forward to hearing what you decide to make up about the next sorority you get pissed off at...but next time, make it more exciting and easier to believe.

The only reason anyone went along with the bullshit you posted, is because most of us who ACTUALLY belong to Alpha Delta Pi, are too kind hearted to let you know what a dumbass you are. But I'm not one of those...so let me tell you what's really up. I agree with the last post...you don't have a flippin' clue what you're talking about and its truly sad you felt like you had to make stuff like that up. Props to the women who just led on that this was true, but I think people need to realize what a liar this chick is. Don't condone it just b/c you feel sorry for her. People need to know that what she wrote was just a sad ( and very unentertaining might I add) fantasy about what she thinks a sorority ritual should be. What an exciting life you must lead...oh to be you. If I had nothing better to do than make up stuff about people I didn't like, I guess I'd put it on the internet too.

I am sorry that all you mere loosers are unable to be part of a sorority or fraternity! You really should not make statements regarding something that you know NOTHING about! Don't you people have anything better to do with your time??? --No wait, you probably do not! GDI's suck!!

its too bad that you feel you have to expose the rituals of the finest secret society in the world...its even sadder how you are inaccurate...if youre trying to hurt ADPi, good luck, because proud greeks are stronger than bitter independents on this issue. stay bitter;)

Isn't it wonderful how the internet can give people an opportunity to expose something that is very sacred to some girls. It also gives the sorority girls the opportunity to claim that the information is totally false. (Even though it's probably pretty accurate). I also would like to know what the girl that wrote it is thinking while she is sitting back and reading all of her former "sisters" fall apart over something as trivial as a sorority ritual. We aren't in high school anymore girls. Grow up......seriously.

I THINK THIS IS SOOOOOOO FUNNY!! I AM AN EX-ADPI AND THE RITUAL IS PRETTY DAMN CLOSE TO THE TRUTH!!! THIS JUST SHOWS HOW THIS SORORITY IS GOING TO SHIT BECAUSE THE ACTIVE MEMBER ARE BITCH!! I AM SOOOO DISSAPOINTED THAT I EVER JJOINED ADPI AND IF I COULD TAKE BACK THOSE TWO YEARS, I WOULD HAVE. ADELPHE!

Ladies, please remember that as sisters of the first and finest, we are expected to conduct ourselves as dignified ladies. This does not involve spewing obscenities over the internet towards someone that posted a message over a year ago. Please try and conduct yourselves in the manner befitting an ADPi. Don't post anymore messages. All you are doing is letting this person win.

May your traitorous lips wither and return to dust

Everyone is entitled to their opinion of Greek organizations. Why anyone would go out of their way to post a sorority's ritual on the internet is beyond me. Who is dying to read that kind of thing anyway? With all the things going on in the world today: terrorism, poverty, rape, etc. everyone needs to stop being so concerned with "greeks". Lighten up. Is it really that big of a deal? Life is too short to be petty over such things. As for the ADPi's who are responding to this, you are just making the situation worse. By lashing back and saying things like "GDI's suck" you are just perpetuating this "war" between greeks and non-greeks. I have plenty of friends who are non-greek as well as greek. We are all not that different, so just get over it, everyone.

For all you ADPi members, by posting messages it is just making this story sound true. If this ritual really was made up, then why stress out over an internet posting?!? ADPI'S who are trying to defend their sorority are just making things even worse for their sisterhood. I am a member of THE BEST greek organization and I am sooooo glad it is not ADPI because the horible quality of their sisters. We have an ADPI chapter at our school, and let me tell you, they are known as " Rho Hoes" "Beer sluts" and "Crack whores" All ADPi's are getting worse and worse! I is embarasing to een be at the same school. PS: I have already known this ritual for over a year because one of the ADPi members opened their big mouth- show's how important the secrets are huh---?

Thats fucked up that u would put this on the internet. Just because u might have had a bad experience, doesnt mean you have to ruin it for the rest of the ADPi's out there. I am disgusted that I would have ever called u my sister. GET A FUCKING LIFE!!

First, lets talk about how you do not have a life because you would rather go around and make up fake rituals for a sorority. Sorry that you have a social disorder and could not find the great things in ADPI.
Second, at our Campus, to be an ADPI is a privlege and you have to have an excellent character. So obvisiously if you aren't in the chapter anymore, you didn't have a strong character, nor the beauty of violets, or the brillance of diamonds.
Third, you have no integrity for yourself and probably never will.

I feel sorry for you more than anything. It must suck to be you. It must suck to sink so low and create falicies to draw attention to yourself. YOU NEED SERIOUS HELP!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! YOUR SISTERHOOD IS GOING TO HELL NOW BECAUSE THE LACK OF GOOD QUALITY GIRLS!! LOOK AT THIS FINE EXAMPLE HERE! I HATE ALL ADPI'S!! I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT THEY ARE SLUTS!! THE ONES AT MY SCHOOL MADE THE NEW GIRLS SNIFF COKE!! GOOD SISTERS HUH?!

Ok, first of all you should go to hell for saying all of thoses things. Second, none of it is true, and you are just trying to be bad ass and all cool. If you want to down something, try your head in a pool of water.

Hey bitch! Why don't you take this shit off the fucking internet. Its not Alpha Delta Pi's fault that you are too fucking stupid to actually be allowed in the sorority! Why don't you take the bullshit off of here. None of it is correct anyways. Dumb bitch!!!

OK, first of all I dont know what kind of chapter you were in and maybe you got a bid into the wrong house. Not everyone who goes through recruitment ends up liking the organization that they pledge. But if in fact is was a mistake and you were not inititated into the correct sorority than I am sorry you missed out on the most wonderful experience of your college career. I am a current JI and let me tell you that there is no way in hell that someone can post the secrets of the Alpha Delta Pi sorority in two or three paragraphs. There are details and feelings and relationships and bonds with those girls in which we "pay for" to enjoy something in life. Alpha Delta Pi ladies are classy and well manored and in this case it is just a rotten apple or someone who should not hve recruited in the first place. I am sorry you feel the way you do because I will always and forever love the people in which I have grown to love and grown close to in the past 12 weeks. As someone else stated beofre, it is not all about the secrets, it is how much you treasure them and how much you love your sisters and love what you are doing not only for yourself but for the community. I have done so much community service within the past 12 weeks, I would never have done it if I had not been in ADpi. Once agian I am truly sorry for all the lost memories you have, but I want you and everyone who comments on this lame site to know that just because someone is bitter and "thinks" she posted the secret rituals of my organizations, my chapter will not show any regret. We will keep on at our chapter meetings and still love our sorority for what it is, a wonderful organization where everyone keeps loyal in their hearts.

PS- WE DO NOT PAY FOR FRIENDS!! THAT IS MORE RIDICULOUS THAN HAZING!! IT MAKES ME SO MAD THAT SOME NON-GREEKS CAN POST MEAN THINGS AGIANST GREEK MEMBERS. I HAVE HAD MOST OF THESE FRIENDS FOR YEARS BEFORE I JOINED, AND HAVE YOU BEEN IN A SORORITY OR FRAT? THAN YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND!! WE PAY DUES FOR THE COST OF OUR LODGES AND THE UPKEEPING OF THE LAWN... THAT IS ALL AND I THINK THAT MAYBE YOU SHOULD PAY FOR SOME FRIENDS SO YOU WILL AT LEAST HAVE ONE...

Loyally and Pi Love,
Megan (Epsilon Epsilon Chapter @ Texas Tech University)

those comments you made about ADPI ritual are flat out wrong, so you may want to take them down before someone embarrases themselves

Ok this is so weird! For one that someone would post something so ridiculous and then some of the comments left on this board. For one Every Adpi chapter is different as with any club or organization. I mean they can't be the same on every campus. Most chapters that I know of do not allow hazing including the one at my school. They do not haze period. I'm sorry if people see adpi as a bad thing on some campus but you can't blame the sorority as a whole for what individuals might do. If you had a bad experience I'm sorry but what some people have said about the sorority is just immature and maybe they shouldn't be in college and should go back to high school because they obviously don't deserve to be greek or in the presence of greeks.

So Grow up or you'll never make it through the real world which is what Greek life really helps prepare you for.

I think that it is so funny that you are sharing secrets that dont even exist. That was all wrong.

You must have missed the real reason of sisterhood, or got hurt in some way.. and for this... I am sorry for you. You have missed an amazing thing.. not jus the friendship, but the sisterhood!

I don't know of any house where dues are less than ,500 a year. If you know what chapter has 0 dues, let me know.

$ 2500

i am an adpi alum and quite honestly i find it very offensive that you would write what happens at initiation. no wonder your an x adpi. you should know that secrets are secrets and their is a reason we dont tell people what happens. its because of the sisterhood. It is an idea that only the girls of adpi share. I can not believe you quite frankly and i truly think that you should remove this post. but it is a free country and you can do what you want. but just so you know, as an adpi to another x-adpi, i would never open my arms to you. your terrible. you broke our codes and ethics and quite honestly, you dont deserve to have ever been a diamond.

May your traitorous lips wither and return to dust.

If you were really initiated into Alpha Delta Pi you would know what the letters mean and what OBIC means. Why didn't you put that? huh?

Yeah what does OBIC mean? what do the letters stand for?

I would just like to say Congrats ADPi's! You have just demonstrated the "loyalty" that is represented throughout our chapter. Although some of the attacks are pretty vulgar...you still stood your ground. Good job for standing up for me and the other thousands of ADPi's out there. As for the author...get a life and some morals. I take pride in my sisters...and you are something that I obviously would not have taken pride in. Peace bioch!

ok so JOSH think he knows about my sorority's ritual. Sweet. A guy, telling secrets, that there's no way he could know. And everyone's supposed to believe this. And even if Josh is some chicken shit's pen name, did you win? Did you get back at the chapter that hurt you? Wow.. you must have really loved it if they hurt you bad enough that you chose to go this far. So you loved it.. I hope you 'got out of it what you put into it'. If this is the kind of member you were, no wonder you were cancelled. And I hope you got some satisfaction that you have managed to hurt ADPi's nationally.. cause ya know, me and you JOSH, we go way back...riggghhhttt. and three years later you still have enough of a grudge to still have this up. Maybe you didnt get anything out of it because you were beyond help.. seems like it to me. But thanks for trying to hurt me and those that I love dearly.. woulda hurt more if you knew what you were talkin about...

If you are going to post secrets, you should probably post ones that are actually true. I am sorry for whatever your chapter did to you, but you should not go around trying to degrade the other memebers of this sororiety.

If you are going to post secrets, you should probably post ones that are actually true. I am sorry for whatever your chapter did to you, but you should not go around trying to degrade the other memebers of this sororiety.

I'M IN A FRATERNITY AND IF SOMEONE KNOWS ONE OF OUR SECRETS AND CONFRONTS ME ABOUT IT I DENY IT. HMMM, REAL HARD TO SAY "GOOD TRY BUT GUESS AGAIN" THE DUMB BITCHES THAT ADMITTED THE SHIT IS CORRECT ARE TRULY AMAZING. OH WELL I STILL LOVE BITCHES.

Ok your just a looser and ugly and cant getinto a soroity or frat...get a life niggah

Hey girls, I am a Pike and my GF is an ADPI and man yall are my fucking girls! Look whether that shit is true or not I don't know, my GF has NEVER told me shit, nor have i asked out of repsect for her and my friends in ADPI, but I have had many guys in PIKE that I kicked out becasue they were fags and went and told shit and guess what, in the end the ritual doesn't mean shit, its all about the sisterhood. Sure the ritual is what links you guys together all over the country but a true ADPI knows whats up and man its jsut about being with those girls you love and shared all those great times with! So fuck you bitch for posting that shit on the internet you fucking loser jsut because you sat by yourself at lunch in highschool doesn't mean you have to be a bitch to everybody else. TTKA loves us some ADPI's and you guys are the best damn sorority ever! You're not the best because you're the oldest, you're the oldest because you're the best!!!!!

i'm glad you paid attention durring initiation...because you got it allllll wrong...idiot

miss "ex-adpi"... you're fucking skeez, get a life.

If you stupid girls had any sense, you'd deny it. The description of the Alpha Delta Pi ritual is very accurate.

Anyone else have ritual questions?

You would think that with all of these posts talking about secrets, and being bitter toward an organization someone would post the meaning of O.B.I.C or the meaning of Alpha Delta Pi because to expose a ritual and to not give the secret mottos of a organization is like telling a story without the ending. im just curious so if anyone wants to post...

Actually, this information is incorrect. Maybe that's why your chapter kicked you out. Way to go.

haha, I find this quite hilarious. I am an adpi, and while I must say that I may not "like" all my sisters, I certianly repespect them and our rituals. however for the others ones I absolutely love, I coudl drop out today and still be their sisters. I'm sad that you had such a bad experience, and while I do recognize that not all girls, esp in a sorority, are created equal, I do realize now why you got kicked out (if you wereever in). That was a nice narration of the ritual, however if I were going to make up something, I'd make it a little more worthwhile. You make us sound boring and dull, if you were a real adpi you would have been able to say a lot more secretive stuff than what you put on there. I'm sorry your bored and didn't get into my sorority. try not to cry too hard.

Awww....I can't believe that this has sparked so much controversy. To my ADPi girls, we're so awesome that people have gone through THIS much trouble and thought to figure out just how amazing our sisterhood works. It's a real compliment to us, thanks! It's all wrong in so many ways, and it's not even worth posting anything else. Let anti-greeks post whatever they want they just give us more power. Pi love, Jessica

P.S.- She must've forgotten the part that we were the FIRST, we are the FINEST, and we are FOREVER!! So Proud to be an ADPi :-)

Wow...I'm really sorry that your time in Alpha Delta Pi ment so little to you that you feel the need to go out and share their secrets. You are the lowest most repulsive type of person...trying to ruin something that means so much to so many other people. I truelly feel sorry for you and I am glad that you are not in the sorority anymore becasue I would be ashamed to call you my sister.

I am SO sorry you were in a bad situation as an ADPi, my only question is... were you an ADPi? The information you have shared on the web does not begin to expose the most amazing womens society in the world. My advice to you: Go back to your notes and make damn sure you were initiated into ADPi, because girl- we accecpt only the best and you, are not!

i feel so bad for you because you didnt experience ADPI. i wouldn't trade my time with ADPI for ANYTHING. obviously you had a bad experience, and no wonder.. because CLEARLY you are not an ADPI and do NOT deserve to wear our letters or be associated with our amazing sorority. we are the first and the FINEST.. and this is not you. so while you are being bitter about not being one of us, and trying to destroy what we hold sacred, know that you are not affecting us because while you claim you know our ritual, you do not know what our sisterhood is about, and words cant even describe that. pi love to all my adpi girls out there :)

Oh hunny... you're so misguided. People like you only have to talk because they're jealous. Good luck in life child. Dust.

Ok to be honest, I'm an ADPi and I don't even know what O.B.I.C. is, maybe I do, but I don't remember it being discussed in any part of initiation. And initiation was one of the most incredible experiences of my life, something I would never even tell, not even my boyfriend of 2 years. And I keep no secrets from him. I feel kinda of left out for not knowing this OBIC, maybe our chapter called it something else. Hopefully at our next initiation I can catch it or recognize what is. This girl, that posted this, seriously has problems. To reveal something so sacred is a horrible thing to do, in any organization. I feel for her. FIRST FINEST FOREVER since 1851!!

What does OBIC and Alpha Delta Pi mean... Just curious

I would just like to know who you people think you are? Yes, I am an ADPi and I love my sorority and all of my sisters. I would never be a traitor to them or any other ADPi anywhere. For the OBIC thing, in my chapter it is wrong to tell what it means, but I know at other chapters it is okay to tell. Personally I believe we should just keep everything a secret and let it be. And for the young lady that posted this message a long time ago, you have some real balls to put this on a website. You must not have much to do with your time. And like all of the other posts have said you should have listened during initiation. You should learn something from this experience, and keep your secrets to yourself. I am sure that you have a guilty conscience for telling lies to people because no one in this world likes a liar.
And to all my true ADPi's out there O.B.I.C pi love and all mine.

I am an ADPi, and I have had sisters' membership cancelled recently. This has been a hard time for the remaining sisters and the cancelled sisters. But through it all, everyone has kept their class. After all, isn't that what makes us a true diamond? Our moral, ethics, and class? I just know that whoever post this message was never a true diamond. She obviously does not have the same standards. To her, may your traitorous lips wither and return to dust. But I am so proud to see the support coming from my sisters from different chapters. I am so blessed to be a part of this organization.

Please respect our rituals.

PI LOVE AND ALL OF MINE.

I think this entire thing is stupid. All of you- grow up.

I have friends in ADPi that have told me everything that goes on- at our school, its not a big deal.

i was with some ADPi girls and they saw this site and said OBIC does not mean "our bond in christ"... they think its a riot that we dont know what it "really" means... so is that really what it means?

I would just like to point out that whether this information is true or not is completely irrelevant. The the true sisters in Alpha Delta Pi out there- we know the truth. More important than words or a handshake is the fact that we know the MEANING behind it. We know the meaning behind over 150 years of ritual. To the people that think they know- congratulations. Good luck getting into chapter meetings all around the world...it's not going to get you anywhere. 

So anybody know anything about Alpha Chi Omega or Tri-Delt rituals they'd like to post??

i dont know this for sure but in the laws of heraldry a evergreen tree symolizes death and rebirth when placed on a Coat of arms and if you notice tri delt has 2 evergreen trees on their COA which i think would mean a death scene similar to Chi O

DUST BITCH

clealry you should have never been in the sorotiy...first cause you cant be trusted and your clearly a just a fucked up person so your fucked up..

PLEASE.
Everyone needs to STOP posting.
I am an ADPI, and I have NO idea why you would continue to post on this ignorant girls attempt to become a "hero" for spreading ADPI's ritual...when it is NOT true.

For the ones who think its true- Actually, I sit here and LAUGH, because while I'm telling you its not true-- you are thinking it is, and that is GREAT!!! I hope you think its true, because that means that this girl accomplished nothing, because ADPI knows it isnt true. WHICH MEANS- our ritual is safe!

For the people who were saying that ADPI was "row hoes" and all of the vulgar names that you chose to describe us....I'm sorry that you had a slacking chapter at your college. I know for a FACT that ADPI is completely different at every college...except for the fact that we still have the most amazing sisterhood. All sororities are different at every college, and I would like to suprise you with some of the rumors of YOUR sorority at my college.

For the TRUE ADPI's- LADIES, right now take this time to take a deep breath and LAUGH. Ladies, we are the FIRST & THE FINEST. and NOTHING IN A MILLION YEARS COULD EVER CHANGE THAT. A pathetic girl on the internet can not change 155 YEARS of true sisterhood. This shows what OBIC really means.....for those of you who know what OBIC means, you know that something like this will not affect our sisterhood.

For the ADPI's dissing this girl - Please ladies lets stay true to our word and show them that we are the first and the finest and stop cussing on the internet....we are the first and the finest-- so show it. This girl obviously is not our sister-- never was--never will be, so stop yelling at her and show some class. Uphold our letters and act like you are an ADPI, because you know that isn't how ADPI is. PRAY for her.

For the ones who are "ANTI GREEK"-- I'm sorry that you will never experience how amazing sisterhood/brotherhood is. REALLY, I'm sorry. because I don't think I could ever be complete without this aspect in my life. I truely think that becoming a greek has changed my life. We don't pay for our friends....we pay dues....dues to help pay for-- supplies (for community service, philanthropy, etc. --things you should do!), scholorships, formals, tshirts, intermural sports, homecoming....etc. IM SORRY that you will never experience the most amazing bond in the world! Don't dis on greeks when you know NOTHING about it. You know what you see on TV. and things on TV is far from what greeks are. Greeks have the highest GPA of all college students-- what does that say about college partying? Obviously its not just greeks. Get your facts straight and step out of the sterotype...

OBIC!!!!!!! THE FIRST FINEST FOREVER!!!!!! 1851!!!!!!!!!!

May your lips wither and return to dust

Delta Tau Delta - Highest GPA Nationally for fraternities and sororities! I Love my ADPi's!!

since were in the spirit of sharing. what are some alpha gamma delta secrets?

haha, you got the handshake wrong. but seriously, the rest of you, OBIC?? i don't know what ritual you're learning, but it certainly isn't the correct one. tip to my sisters, neither confirm nor deny, simply ignore.

I know its been said, but please ignore this post. By reacting to this in a negative way we are making our sisterhood look bad. We are classy ladies and all that entails. You girls know our ritual as it is and we are the only ones who can truly say we know our ritual through and through.
Pi love sisters
OBIC

I just wanted to say I think this post is very sad. I feel bad for the girl that wrote this because she doesn't know true friendship, true sisterhood, or any little bit of loyalty.

If you can stoop this low, I honestly feel very bad for you. I'm sorry you are an ex-adpi not by choice but your actions show why you aren't one anymore. No one can ever trust you, no one should ever be your friend because you have no idea what friendship is.

To my lovely ladies of Alpha Delta Pi, you girls are amazing, young or old, near or far OBIC. Even if you don't know what OBIC means you know it in your heart. We are forever. We all have the same goals and the same love for our sorority. I know we will go far and some girls attempt to ruin us does not even make a dent in our sisterhood whatsoever.

I hope this girl ends up having a good life but with her actions you can only guess how she will react to any situation life throws at her.Obviously not with grace or class.

What was written in that post may or may not be true, but it doesn't really matter. I just hope you all know ADPi is more than a handshake or a symbol. It's a shared motto a beleif our founders had and we have and you OR ANYONE can never ever take that away.

OBIC. Pi love and ALL of mine.

i am not part of ADPi, but am part of another sorority, i just can't believe anyone would actaully turn against their oath of promsing never to reveal the conveant to anyone... that is just so wrong

just becuase you're an ex-ADPi, that doesn't mean you should reveal their secrets (whether true or not), and post their 150+ years of tradition cheaply on the internet for the public to see, even if you don't respect the girls, respect the sorority, and at least have some respect for yourself

it hurts to see why anyone will do this

its mind, character, and truth. don't know where you got hope from....

i don't know why everyone is freaking out. everybody knows everybody's everything anyway. do you know how many times someone not in my sorority (usually guys) has came up to me and shook my hand the ritual way? with the house being 150+ years old it was bound to come out. i think the only thing sillier than posting ritual is lying when you are outed - that makes you look stupid. its like admit it - you were pwned. others knowing the ritual doesn't take from the sisterhood. the stars, the grip, the password, that's all superficial, its the love we have for our sisters that really matters.

Just like you wouldn't post your family's secrets, good or bad, on the internet; you don't post your sisterhood's secrets either. Ex-sister or not.

I hate that whoever wrote this never got to truly experience the sisterhood that I have.

I am a member of a secret society myself...similar to a sorority but we don't pay or have a house. I think it just shows that wew are good people that we can be members of the elite and NOT HAVE TO SHOW IT OFF...anyhoo, AN ACTIVE SISTER taught me your handshake (there's no middle finger involved, only the index) and she even told my WHY that's your handshake (most important vein in your "sister's" body). I WAS RECENTLY WRONGED by an ADPi, ...she was un-classy enough to try and get my boyfriend to date her behind my back. AND YES, SHE PISSED ME OFF THAT MUCH SO I CAN WRITE WHATEVER I WANT. RIGHT. So I taught my boyfriend that handshake and I'm pretty sure he let his ENTIRE Fraternity in on the secret, too. Maybe you should think a little harder about who you accept as your sisters, ladies. Since you have unclassy ladies and those ACTIVE sisters that share your secrets. NONE of my sisters in my secret society would do anything like your sisters. OH, and our initiation is way more challenging and rewarding in the end. Not to mention we get to have fun..and we have secret names that our sisters make up for us. Kthanksbye.

sorors,

must choose your new members carefully, but i am sure every sorority has its own share of "pyscho" sisters

fraternally yours,

"Maybe you should think a little harder about who you accept as your sisters, ladies. Since you have unclassy ladies and those ACTIVE sisters that share your secrets"

No one in my chapter would EVER EVER EVER do this. And like someone else said, every chapter is different.

Today we salute you, Miss Alpha Delta Pi sister. Considered to be truly classy since 1851. ADPi's have set the precedent for every sorority. Women have strived to become just like you for over a century. Intimidation is the best form of flattery, isn't it? As an ADPi you exemplify all that is positive about women in college today. You are well rounded, executing terrific time management between school, work, and play. You are always the life of the party and also the girl that the fellas want to take home to their mother. And of course you dazzle her with your wit, charm, and stunning good looks. So pop open a bottle of bubbly, you diamond girl, because everyone knows that ADPi is where the first and absolute finest will be forever fabulous!!

so what do the letters and OBIC means? adpi girls in my campus are always bragging about how they know my sorority's secrets and they even make fun of them. i would just like to tell one of them a few of their own secrets so that they'll see how it feels to have your secrets be treated so light heartedly. does anyone know???

um dolly?
just because an alpha delta pi sister knows about your sorority's dumb secret, it doesn't make it alpha delta pi's fault, does it? who told one of your dumb sisters to tell everyone? and no, i will never tell you what OBIC means, and even if you know, you won't know the meaning behind it anyway,

get lost

FIRST FINEST FOREVER!

who the hell do you think you are to call my sorority's secret dumb? my secret means as much to me as yours does to you. i would think that a fellow greek woman would understand how appalled i am that your SISTERS are making fun of MY secret. How would you feel if girls constantly yelled your ritual across campus and laugh with others about the "ridiculousness" of it??. i'm pretty sure you wouldn't appreciate it jsut like you don't appreciate people talking about it online...i just hope not all ADPi's are conceited, ignorant, arrogant BITCHES like the girls at my school.

hm, so in order to get other sorority members to know how you feel, you want to know adpi's secrets so you can do the same to them? sounds like you're having problems too, sister

Ok, i don't have any problems. I'm just sick of ADPi's bullshit. We have tried everything to get them to stop mocking our ritual in public and to make them understand how awful we feel about it. But ADPi's at this school are fucking airheads and nothing get through their heads. It's been over a year of this, and they won't quit. So, to us, this is the last resort, that's all. We could care less about your ritual, we've got our own. But we would like to protect it, and since discussing things like mature people doesn't appeal to the ADPi's here, we have no choice but to do to them as they have been doing onto us. I do not feel hatred towards Alpha Delta Pi, i believe you all are a great organization that has been around forever, and for a reason. However, this particular ADPi chapter doesn't seem to care about anyone but themselves and in their attempts to be popular with other greeks, they put us down. Tell me, who's got problems??????

OBIC = our bond is closest!!!! I HATE ADPI BITCHES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!